"Friends with benefits" is a term that has developed over the past decade.
What does this mean? Having a physical relationship with somebody who
you are not committed to or who is not committed to you. He may be a
friend or somebody you once dated. Usually the scenario goes like this.
Girl likes boy.
Boy doesn't want to date or commit to girl (may have different reasons).
Boy wants physical relationship.
Girl thinks she can get boy to like her if she gives boy what he wants
Benefits occur (kissing, making out, sex).
Girl feels bad about self because boy still doesn't want to date her.
You may be asking yourself about now, why would anybody do this?
It's back to the fact that young won1en are not seeing themselves as being
precious but want so desperately to find somebody who will help them
feel special. .. no matter the cost. If you are one of these girls, you are not
treating yourself with the respect that Christ wants for you. He wants
you to feel special. He desires for you to see yourself as a limited edition,
rare, hard to find, a precious jewel. There is a high price that has been
paid for you. Why does some boy get to throw you away and lower your
self-worth?
Read I Corinthians 6:20
For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in
your body and in your spirit, which are Gods.
Thought of the day:
How are you glorifying God in your Body?
What does this mean? Having a physical relationship with somebody who
you are not committed to or who is not committed to you. He may be a
friend or somebody you once dated. Usually the scenario goes like this.
Girl likes boy.
Boy doesn't want to date or commit to girl (may have different reasons).
Boy wants physical relationship.
Girl thinks she can get boy to like her if she gives boy what he wants
Benefits occur (kissing, making out, sex).
Girl feels bad about self because boy still doesn't want to date her.
You may be asking yourself about now, why would anybody do this?
It's back to the fact that young won1en are not seeing themselves as being
precious but want so desperately to find somebody who will help them
feel special. .. no matter the cost. If you are one of these girls, you are not
treating yourself with the respect that Christ wants for you. He wants
you to feel special. He desires for you to see yourself as a limited edition,
rare, hard to find, a precious jewel. There is a high price that has been
paid for you. Why does some boy get to throw you away and lower your
self-worth?
Read I Corinthians 6:20
For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in
your body and in your spirit, which are Gods.
Thought of the day:
How are you glorifying God in your Body?
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